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The slow abandonment of home

The human cost of cold, prison-like mass developments

13 June 2026

2:37 PM

13 June 2026

2:37 PM

We are building homes at a rapid rate across Australia’s major cities, yet what is rising around us looks less like housing and more like managed containment: stacked, standardised, and stripped of anything that might actually nourish a life.

The push to build more homes is treated as a moral imperative that cannot be questioned.

What is almost never asked is what kind of life is being offered inside those dwellings, or what kind of cities we are choosing to become. In the name of supply, we have quietly accepted a model that treats residents as units to be warehoused rather than human beings whose daily existence matters.

Across many of Australia’s major cities, a single commercial logic now dominates apartment development. The overriding concern is yield – how many apartments can be squeezed onto a site, how quickly they can be built, and how large a profit can be realised. These pressures are understandable. Developers operate under real financial constraints, and governments face political pressure to increase housing supply. The difficulty arises when yield becomes the dominant force shaping every design decision. When the number of units, the speed of construction, and the margin per square metre take precedence over light, space, privacy, and long-term durability, the consequences are not surprising. They are inevitable.

The Architecture of Exposure

The situation becomes worse when apartment blocks are approved so close together that sunlight is throttled and privacy disappears. You keep the curtains drawn at noon because anyone strolling past on the footpath has a clear, uninterrupted view straight into your living room. As a result, many of us end up spending most of our days in rooms lit only by the weak light that filters through closed sheers. This contributes to interiors feeling permanently dim and claustrophobic – almost prison-like. At the same time, you can stand at your kitchen bench and find yourself staring straight into your neighbour’s living room or bedroom across a gap barely wider than a car. The feeling is one of constant, low-level exposure – as though your home has become a glass box in which you are simultaneously performer and unwilling spectator.

The compulsory balcony adds to the problem. In Victoria and New South Wales, planning rules effectively demand private outdoor space on most new apartments. In the colder southern cities, those balconies are useful for perhaps three months of the year. The rest of the time the sliding doors stay shut, the furniture stays covered, and the protruding slab does what it was never meant to do – steal natural light from the rooms behind it. The overwhelming majority of daily life in an apartment happens indoors. Yet the rules insist on outdoor space that is rarely usable while simultaneously shrinking and darkening the living areas that matter. Many European cities have long managed without mandatory balconies and their apartments are noticeably more generous and better lit as a result. The problem is not balconies themselves. It is that they have been turned into a mandatory design fetish, imposed regardless of climate or context, at the direct expense of the things people actually need.

This matters more than ever because more of us are spending far more time at home than previous generations did. The irony is that our parents and grandparents often had homes with more light, space and privacy – yet they spent far less time in them. Rising living costs and the normalisation of remote work have made the quality of domestic space newly critical. At the same time, the demands placed on that space have increased. Many people now need rooms that can serve multiple purposes at once – functioning as a bedroom, workspace and living area within the same four walls. Work meetings frequently take place in bedrooms or in small studios where cooking, working and sleeping all occur in the same space, the kind of cramped, all-in-one space memorably shown in Bruce Willis’ dystopian apartment in that initial scene from The Fifth Element. When our space is poorly lit, lacking in privacy, and fundamentally uncomfortable, the shortfall is no longer an occasional irritation. It is a daily condition that erodes wellbeing, strains relationships, and quietly reshapes how people feel about their own lives.

Built to Decay


Inside the apartments themselves, a particular aesthetic of cheapness has become the default. Concrete floors, black aluminium frames, stark minimalist detailing, and harsh down lights create spaces that feel cold, clinical, and remarkably difficult to humanise. These elements are not minor finishes that can be easily changed or softened over time. They are structural and systemic choices – locked in from the moment the building is completed. No amount of furniture, rugs, artwork or paint can fully overcome the fundamental coldness of these interiors. Cornices, wall panelling, architraves, timber floors, and warm wall lighting – the very details that once made rooms feel generous and lived-in – have been value-engineered out of existence. What remains is housing that feels temporary and disposable from the day the keys are handed over.

This is not an aesthetic preference. It is the logical outcome of a development model that selects materials and finishes for how quickly and cheaply they can be installed, not for how they will feel to live with over decades. The home – the one place where most of us spend the great majority of our lives – has been reduced to a financial instrument, judged by the profit it can generate rather than the life it can support.

Policy Choices, Not Inevitable Outcomes

None of this is an unavoidable consequence of population growth or market forces. It is the direct result of deliberate policy choices. In Victoria, the Allan Labor government has expanded fast-track planning pathways, most notably through the Development Facilitation Program, which removes major projects from normal council scrutiny and hands decision-making power to the state – often allowing planning controls to be varied or overridden. A recent example is the fast-tracking of an 18-storey tower on the former Leo’s supermarket site in Kew Junction – a project that cheerfully exceeded the very height limits the same government had set after community consultation. These are not neutral administrative tweaks. They are political decisions that shift power decisively toward developers and away from the communities who must live with the consequences for generations. Once one poorly scaled building is waved through, neighbouring sites become harder to defend. Amenity erodes street by street.

We are told almost daily that we must build more homes, and build them as fast as possible. Yet the practical effect has been to lock in a system that treats decent natural light, genuine privacy, and housing built to last as luxuries the market cannot afford. What began as an emergency response to a housing shortage has quietly hardened into the new normal: a machine finely tuned to reward the cheapest, densest, most disposable apartments – while actively punishing anything better.

A developer who attempts to deliver larger rooms, deeper sunlight, proper privacy setbacks, or higher-quality materials immediately pays a penalty: fewer apartments per site, lower profit margins, slower approvals, and a greater risk that the project will be rejected or watered down. In this inverted world, excellence is not merely discouraged – it is made financially and bureaucratically uncompetitive.

The Real Cost

The human cost of this approach is becoming harder to ignore. Australia’s fertility rate has been declining for years, and housing – both its cost and its suitability for family life – is repeatedly identified in research as a contributing factor. When apartments are too small, too dark or too inflexible to comfortably accommodate children, many young people make rational decisions to delay or abandon plans to start families. This is not a side-effect. It is a direct social consequence of treating housing as a spreadsheet problem rather than the physical foundation of life.

We are also constructing environments that make ordinary daily existence more stressful and depleting than it needs to be. Poor natural light, inadequate privacy, cheap and clinical materials, and the constant low-level exposure of living in close proximity to strangers without meaningful buffers all take a cumulative toll. When a home cannot effectively function as a place of restoration and retreat, the psychological and social costs accumulate over time. These pressures affect sleep, family relationships, mental health and the everyday texture of domestic life.

Children grow up in bedrooms barely big enough for a bed. Parents manage family life in dwellings never designed for it. Even singles and couples often find they have nowhere to comfortably host family or friends for dinner, as their apartments are too small to fit a table for more than four people. Social life shrinks, relationships are harder to maintain, and the home becomes a place of limitation rather than connection. These are not merely aesthetic or lifestyle complaints. They are tangible conditions that influence people’s health, relationships, and long-term life trajectories.

What We Already Know

We are not without examples of how to do this better. Across Australia, the better-quality brick apartment buildings constructed in inner suburbs such as Melbourne’s South Yarra, Hawthorn, Toorak and Armadale, or Sydney’s Elizabeth Bay and Potts Point during the 1960s and 1970s continue to be highly sort after. They were built with solid masonry, generous proportions, and an understanding that light, ventilation, and human scale actually mattered. Many still have proper architectural detailing, timber floors, and small courtyards or light wells that bring sunlight deep into the plan. They have aged with dignity. Their materials have proven durable, their proportions still feel right, and they sit comfortably in their streetscapes rather than dominating them.

These buildings are proof that density does not have to mean the abandonment of comfort, permanence, or character. The knowledge exists. The local precedent exists. What is missing is the political and cultural will to insist on it.

What We Are Locking In

Right now we are locking in the character of our cities for the next half-century. The apartment blocks rising across the major cities of Australia will not be temporary. They will shape not only where people live but how they live – whether they feel able to have children, whether they experience home as refuge or endurance, whether they remain in the cities they grew up in or quietly decide the price is too high. We have allowed commercial yield calculations and short-term political targets to override any coherent vision of what a decent home or a good city actually looks like.

This did not happen by accident. It is the result of sustained policy choices that prized quantity over quality, speed over deliberation, and developer convenience over resident experience.

Reversing it will require more than tinkering. It will require state governments to treat design quality and long-term liveability as non-negotiable, to embed robust performance standards for light, privacy, space, and material durability that cannot be casually overridden by fast-track mechanisms or ministerial whim. It will require restoring local councils as genuine decision-makers rather than speed bumps to be bypassed. And it will require the courage to say that some trade-offs are simply not worth making – that a city measured only in approval numbers is a city that has already begun to abandon its people.

The buildings we approve today will stand long after the politicians who approved them have left office. The only remaining question is how much more of our collective home we are willing to surrender before we decide the cost is too high.

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