Dear Mary
Dear Mary
Q. A well-known television mogul,whom I had met only once, came to dinner at my house. I was on good…
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Q. We have moved from London into a rural area where we are preparing for the first visit of a…
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Q. How can I avoid becoming seen as an ‘Instagram creeper’? My well-meaning niece tells me that I’m in danger…
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Q. Last year my husband and I stayed with a much-loved, but slightly airy-fairy friend in her house in Tuscany.…
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Q. My partner and I recently had two close friends — one a Peer, the other a former Member of the…
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Q. Some rather flashy new neighbours of ours — I won’t mention their names as his will be familiar to…
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Q. Our best friends own a house in Morocco which sleeps about ten. They rent it out but go two…
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Q. I am in my seventies and my husband is in his nineties. The other night we had two couples…
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Q. Mary, I am what you would probably call a Sloane Ranger. I have great numbers of close friends and…
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Q. I was brought up to stick rigidly to any invitation accepted and never to ‘chuck’ when a better one…
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Q. I’m shortly to host a very large family gathering. Everyone will be related to the same ancestor, so we…
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Q. My children are very lucky in that we have bought them all flats. However, they are now renting out…
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Q. Last summer a friend of my brother-in-law’s house-sat for us while we were in Greece for a week. We…
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Q. Is there an etiquette regarding security gates? My wife and I were invited to dinner by new neighbours who…
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Q. ‘Alfred’ is a friend of 30 years’ standing who has just married for the first time. Alfred retains all…
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Q. We have friends to stay each year in Scotland and it’s always a pleasure. Guests know there is signal…
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Q. I import a range of very high-quality food products from Europe into the UK. They are regarded as the…
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Q. Having retired, my husband is now an enthusiastic observer of the goldfinches, greenfinches and bullfinches in our garden. Their…
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Q. We have received a ‘save the week’ card from friends who take a villa abroad every year. We usually…
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Q. I am a member of a well-known country house opera society, and I organise annual trips to performances for…
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Q. Re getting away from bores at drinks parties (Dear Mary, 20 May). I take issue with the idea that…
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Q. My mother always told me that only boring people are bored. However she never got stuck at a drinks…
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Q. My 23-year-old son has taught himself to play the piano, learning the theme tune to The Truman Show without…
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Q. I have a very good cleaner who comes once a week. She is far more efficient than anyone I’ve…
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Q. New colleagues invited us to lunch but didn’t warn us that the clippings had not been cleared up from…
