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6 October 2016 2:00 pm

Q. A family of five from Brazil who are close friends of mine are visiting London next week. They have…

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1 October 2016 9:00 am

Q. When an invitation to shoot arrives in the autumn, I have a sense of both excitement and dread. The…

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29 September 2016 1:00 pm

Q. When an invitation to shoot arrives in the autumn, I have a sense of both excitement and dread. The…

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24 September 2016 9:00 am

Q. How can I tactfully request that well-meaning old friends stop toasting my (new) husband’s hospitality? It seems ungrateful but,…

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22 September 2016 1:00 pm

Q. How can I tactfully request that well-meaning old friends stop toasting my (new) husband’s hospitality? It seems ungrateful but,…

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17 September 2016 9:00 am

Q. At a recent party I was delighted to find my hosts had put me next to one of their…

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15 September 2016 1:00 pm

Q. At a recent party I was delighted to find my hosts had put me next to one of their…

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10 September 2016 9:00 am

Q. We recently stayed for a Saturday night with an old friend and were warned before we arrived that my…

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8 September 2016 1:00 pm

Q. We recently stayed for a Saturday night with an old friend and were warned before we arrived that my…

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3 September 2016 9:00 am

Q. We have a heavenly house in Corfu where we go as often as possible. The best thing about it…

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1 September 2016 1:00 pm

Q. We have a heavenly house in Corfu where we go as often as possible. The best thing about it…

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27 August 2016 9:00 am

  Q. We have been invited to stay with a generous friend in Greece. Now we hear from other (slightly…

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25 August 2016 1:00 pm

  Q. We have been invited to stay with a generous friend in Greece. Now we hear from other (slightly…

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20 August 2016 9:00 am

Q. My partner and I have been living together for 26 years, but now that he’s asked me to marry…

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18 August 2016 1:00 pm

Q. My partner and I have been living together for 26 years, but now that he’s asked me to marry…

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12 August 2016 11:00 pm

Q. I live in Balham but work in Mayfair. Twice recently I have had to take whole days off work…

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11 August 2016 1:00 pm

Q. I live in Balham but work in Mayfair. Twice recently I have had to take whole days off work…

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6 August 2016 9:00 am

Q. David and Samantha Cameron, their family and two armed policemen have moved to the house opposite us. Do you…

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4 August 2016 1:00 pm

Q. David and Samantha Cameron, their family and two armed policemen have moved to the house opposite us. Do you…

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30 July 2016 9:00 am

Q. Every summer, just when England is at its loveliest, we have to pack everything up and make a stressy…

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28 July 2016 1:00 pm

Q. Every summer, just when England is at its loveliest, we have to pack everything up and make a stressy…

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23 July 2016 9:00 am

Q. Since my husband began to appear in the Rich List he has become much more popular with ‘artists’ in…

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21 July 2016 1:00 pm

Q. Since my husband began to appear in the Rich List he has become much more popular with ‘artists’ in…

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16 July 2016 9:00 am

Q. My wife and I are enthusiastic dancers so when we heard that people we know through mutual friends were…

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14 July 2016 1:00 pm

Q. My wife and I are enthusiastic dancers so when we heard that people we know through mutual friends were…