Dear Mary
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Q. A very old friend has rented a holiday house and invited my husband and me to stay. The property…
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Q. I’ve just completed a six-month paid internship for a hedge fund manager. I was mostly in his private office…
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Q. Passing Buckingham Palace in a taxi the other day, I saw the ceremonial wing of the Household Division prancing…
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Q. My beloved wife has been studying Chinese metaphysics for 18 months. Our house and garden have been badly neglected…
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Q. I have been double-vaccinated but am especially at risk and, since I know of at least four double-vaccinated people…
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Q. I live in a row of town houses with a communal strip of garden in front. Three of the…
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Q. The other night, while hosting a house party, I was one of only three people still chatting by the…
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Q. We have old friends who live in the northern hinterlands and have a property in Provence where they normally…
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Q. Last night I went to dinner with people I had never met before. Because the host was a friend…
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Q. At a lunch party, I was getting on so well with someone I had not met before. She knew…
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Q. Once restrictions are lifted, our annual walking group has planned a week’s walk with after-walk gatherings in a different…
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Q. We have been invited to a virtual wedding. Is it correct form to send a present?— P.F., Barrow Street,…
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Q. I’ve recently been approached by a very good friend who — with genuinely admirable candour and tact — pointed…
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Q. I am placed in a social dilemma due to a proposed visit on the last weekend of June by…
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Q. Since the relaxation of lockdown, my brother and his wife have started coming to our garden for takeaway meals.…
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Q. My husband and I have started receiving invitations to large summer events scheduled for after 21 June. We have…
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Q. Our neighbours have a tennis court which, under the property’s previous owner, we enjoyed playing men’s fours on. The…
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Q. I have just been invited to a wedding where the groom will be the only person I know. Much…
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Q. I have been working (from home) for a TV comedy production company for a year. My job is scouting…
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Q. A dear friend of long-standing has a propensity to make friends of our friends — people she has first…
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Q. Before Covid, I was staying with friends in the country every other weekend. As a single man living in…
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Q. I hesitate to bring you this problem, but I suspect it is not that uncommon. Early in our very…
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Q. Recently an old acquaintance, notorious for never penning a ‘thank you’ note, emailed me telling me he was being…
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Q. Our friend lives far away, but comes to stay at her country place nearby several times a year. Some…
