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Q. I treat myself to a manicure every ten days. It’s a 30-minute appointment and the girl I use is…
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Q. My cleaner is industrious and trustworthy but she doesn’t have many people to talk to and evidently looks forward…
High life
Gstaad Who was it who said good manners had gone the way of black and white TV? Actually it was…
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From Lady Antonia Fraser Q. I enjoy getting readers’ letters, but there is one category I am at a loss…
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Q. I will shortly be attending a major social gathering in London at which I can look forward to seeing…
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Q. Our two daughters often bring friends down for the weekend. These friends are more than welcome; we enjoy their…
Dear Mary: Your problems solved
Q. During lockdown I made good friends with a neighbour who I would never have met otherwise. This man lives…
Dear Mary: Your problems solved
Q. I have recently become a widow. Since my son is away at university, I had the idea of charging…
Dear Mary: Your problems solved
Q. We have had some rather rich Argentines to stay. No one was able to come in to help before…
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Q. A very old friend has rented a holiday house and invited my husband and me to stay. The property…
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Q. Passing Buckingham Palace in a taxi the other day, I saw the ceremonial wing of the Household Division prancing…
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Q. My beloved wife has been studying Chinese metaphysics for 18 months. Our house and garden have been badly neglected…
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Q. I live in a row of town houses with a communal strip of garden in front. Three of the…
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Q. The other night, while hosting a house party, I was one of only three people still chatting by the…
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Q. Last night I went to dinner with people I had never met before. Because the host was a friend…
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Q. At a lunch party, I was getting on so well with someone I had not met before. She knew…
Polite reminder
Why rudeness doesn’t pay
Dear Mary
Q. Once restrictions are lifted, our annual walking group has planned a week’s walk with after-walk gatherings in a different…
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Q. We have been invited to a virtual wedding. Is it correct form to send a present?— P.F., Barrow Street,…
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Q. I’ve recently been approached by a very good friend who — with genuinely admirable candour and tact — pointed…
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Q. I am placed in a social dilemma due to a proposed visit on the last weekend of June by…
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Q. Since the relaxation of lockdown, my brother and his wife have started coming to our garden for takeaway meals.…
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Q. My husband and I have started receiving invitations to large summer events scheduled for after 21 June. We have…
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Q. I have just been invited to a wedding where the groom will be the only person I know. Much…
