Mary Killen

Mary Killen writes The Spectator's Dear Mary column.

Dear Mary: How to stop someone from giving my tiny children expensive clothes that they never wear?

5 December 2015 9:00 am

Q. Is there a tactful way to deter certain people from buying clothing for one’s tiny children as Christmas presents?…

Dear Mary: How to stop someone from giving my tiny children expensive clothes that they never wear?

3 December 2015 3:00 pm

Q. Is there a tactful way to deter certain people from buying clothing for one’s tiny children as Christmas presents?…

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Dear Mary: How can I protect my sick husband from his friends?

28 November 2015 9:00 am

Q. My husband is, in a word, adorable. However, following a substantial brain operation, his doctor has told him that…

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Dear Mary: How can I protect my sick husband from his friends?

26 November 2015 3:00 pm

Q. My husband is, in a word, adorable. However, following a substantial brain operation, his doctor has told him that…

Dear Mary: How can I shut up business travel bores?

21 November 2015 9:00 am

Q. I work in the London art market. Often, when I run into a fellow dealer and ask how they…

Dear Mary

19 November 2015 3:00 pm

Q. I work in the London art market. Often, when I run into a fellow dealer and ask how they…

Dear Mary on cheering up an ageing Adonis....

14 November 2015 9:00 am

Q. The other night, as I arrived at the John James exhibition on Fulham Road, I stopped to say hello…

Dear Mary on cheering up an ageing Adonis….

12 November 2015 3:00 pm

Q. The other night, as I arrived at the John James exhibition on Fulham Road, I stopped to say hello…

Dear Mary: why are young women dyeing their hair grey?

7 November 2015 9:00 am

Q. I have lunch once a month with an old university friend. Over the years we have both thickened out…

Dear Mary: I always end up subsidising my greedy friend’s lunch

5 November 2015 3:00 pm

Q. I have lunch once a month with an old university friend. Over the years we have both thickened out…

Dear Mary: How can we make our dinner guests go?

29 October 2015 3:00 pm

Q. Many of our best and oldest friends have done so well they have stopped work. Meanwhile my husband still…

Dear Mary: How can we make our dinner guests go?

29 October 2015 9:00 am

Q. Many of our best and oldest friends have done so well they have stopped work. Meanwhile my husband still…

Dear Mary: How can I greet friends without clashing specs?

24 October 2015 9:00 am

Q. As an old trout, large in height and breadth, I have taken a leaf out of the documentary Advanced…

Dear Mary: How can I greet friends without clashing specs?

22 October 2015 2:00 pm

Q. As an old trout, large in height and breadth, I have taken a leaf out of the documentary Advanced…

Dear Mary: Another way to deal with a maddening blackhead

17 October 2015 8:00 am

Q. Might I suggest an alternative solution to E.B. of London’s problem (3 October) about the person sporting a ‘maddening’…

Dear Mary: Another way to deal with a maddening blackhead

15 October 2015 2:00 pm

Q. Might I suggest an alternative solution to E.B. of London’s problem (3 October) about the person sporting a ‘maddening’…

Dear Mary, do I have to go to see my friend perform again?

3 October 2015 8:00 am

Q. A friend of mine is performing a recital in Dublin and has sent round an email advertising the time…

Your problems solved

1 October 2015 1:00 pm

Q. A friend of mine is performing a recital in Dublin and has sent round an email advertising the time…

Dear Mary: How can I make visiting friends realise it is a burden to take them to see the sights?

26 September 2015 8:00 am

Q. I am an impoverished artist living in a famously cheap European city, largely for reasons of economy. I love…

Dear Mary

24 September 2015 1:00 pm

Q. I am an impoverished artist living in a famously cheap European city, largely for reasons of economy. I love…

Dear Mary: How do I address a magistrate of indeterminate sex?

19 September 2015 8:00 am

Q. Some years ago, while appearing as a barrister before a bench of three magistrates in the youth court, I…

Your problems solved

17 September 2015 1:00 pm

Q. Some years ago, while appearing as a barrister before a bench of three magistrates in the youth court, I…

Dear Mary: A horrid woman accused me of hogging a spare train seat

12 September 2015 9:00 am

Q. I regularly travel on the Ashford-St Pancras train and usually put my case on the seat next to me…

Dear Mary

10 September 2015 1:00 pm

Q. I regularly travel on the Ashford-St Pancras train and usually put my case on the seat next to me…

Dear Mary: how can I resist peer pressure to go nude swimming?

5 September 2015 9:00 am

Q. I am going on a late holiday with a group of people who are keen on nude swimming, which…