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Dear Mary

Dear Mary: how can I tell young people to pipe down at dinner parties?

3 May 2025

9:00 AM

3 May 2025

9:00 AM

Q. I find that when I go to mixed-age dinner parties the young all seem to be shouting. How can one tell them to pipe down without puncturing their ‘self esteem’?

– N.H., London SW7

A. Young people’s voices have indeed become louder. The habit of wearing headphones and watching Netflix with subtitles so they can double-screen has compromised their ability to hear real-life voices and in response they shout.

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