Sex

Two years without Jeremy Clarke

24 May 2025 9:00 am

Two years ago, at five to eight in the evening of Monday 22 May 2023, I ran into the department…

In defence of virgins

17 May 2025 9:00 am

If we were really an island of strangers, as Sir Keir Starmer attested this week, then it might be OK.…

Pope Francis, my love rival

17 May 2025 9:00 am

To be honest, I felt relief when Pope Francis died. This had nothing much to do with his regular assertion,…

Is there sex after 70?

19 April 2025 9:00 am

When I turned 70 in September, I had a panic attack. I was certain that my romantic life was over.…

Marriage, motherhood and money: Show Don’t Tell, by Curtis Sittenfeld, reviewed

12 April 2025 9:00 am

Funny, smart stories explore the ‘stale’ married state, the anxieties of parenthood and the sweet-sour nature of female friendship. But do they go far enough?

The art of sexual innuendo

15 March 2025 9:00 am

Paula Rego’s 2021 retrospective at Tate Britain demonstrated that, among art critics, ambiguity is still highly prized as a measure…

Tedious and threadbare: Unicorn, at the Garrick Theatre, reviewed

22 February 2025 9:00 am

Unicorn, Mike Bartlett’s new play, involves some characters in chairs discussing a sexual threesome. That’s the entire show. Polly (Nicola…

There’s nothing sexy about a sex party

25 January 2025 9:00 am

‘Sorry sir, the rules clearly state that all single men must be accompanied by a woman.’ As the frustrated guest…

A geriatric Lord of the Flies: Killing Time, by Alan Bennett, reviewed

2 November 2024 9:00 am

Chaos reigns at an old people’s home when Covid strikes, but the more rebellious residents won’t take the situation lying down

Ambitious, bold and confusing: BBC4’s Corridors of Power – Should America Police the World? reviewed

10 August 2024 9:00 am

Narrated by Meryl Streep, Corridors of Power: Should America Police the World? announced the scale of its ambition straight away.…

Surprise package: Tackle!, by Jilly Cooper, reviewed

16 December 2023 9:00 am

Rupert Campbell-Black (‘still Nirvana to most women’) decides to buy a football club – to the amazement of Rutshire, and no doubt Cooper’s devoted readers

A strong whiff of goodbyes: The Pole and Other Stories, by J.M. Coetzee, reviewed

9 December 2023 9:00 am

‘The cogs are seizing up, the lights are going out.’ As Elizabeth Costello clears her desk in this collection of stories, we feel that Coetzee may be doing the same

The inequality of sex

23 September 2023 9:00 am

As we all shroud ourselves in grief at being unable to watch Russell Brand any more on terrestrial television stations,…

Horribly described sex: The Last Chairlift, by John Irving, reviewed

22 October 2022 9:00 am

Some time ago I was a guest at a book festival in France where we were invited to dinner in…

A complex, driven, unhappy man: the truth about John le Carré

15 October 2022 9:00 am

Adam Sisman on the private life of John le Carré, revealed in letters and a kiss-and-tell

Peta, Lysistrata and the comedy of a sex strike

1 October 2022 9:00 am

The German branch of the ‘green’ organisation Peta (‘People for the ethical treatment of animals’) is demanding that, until men…

Liberté, égalité, nudité: France’s new sexual politics

13 August 2022 9:00 am

France’s new sexual politics

Why it has to be Kemi

16 July 2022 9:00 am

Have you considered a career in whoring? It can be very rewarding, apparently – especially financially. World’s oldest profession and…

The delights of two-timing

9 July 2022 9:00 am

Looking back and trying to choose just one out of those incomparably bewitching women of one’s youth can be tricky.…

Beware the sex party bores

2 July 2022 9:00 am

You know you’re getting old when your friends start going to sex parties. In our twenties, there were parties, and…

It’s wholly impossible to look away: Good Luck to You, Leo Grande reviewed

18 June 2022 9:00 am

Good Luck to You, Leo Grande stars Emma Thompson as a retired, widowed religious education teacher in her sixties who…

A flawed utopia: The Men, by Sandra Newman, reviewed

4 June 2022 9:00 am

The problem for feminism is men. Not, specifically, in the sense that men are the source of women’s problems, although…

A child’s eye view: Fight Night, by Miriam Toews, reviewed

28 May 2022 9:00 am

Writing from a child’s point of view is a daredevil act that Miriam Toews raises the stakes on in her…

Tina: the drug devastating the gay community

26 March 2022 9:00 am

The ‘chemsex’ drug devastating the gay community

This be the curse: Philip Larkin’s big problem

12 March 2022 9:00 am

Philip Larkin’s big problem