Etiquette
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Q. I’m a single bloke now and for various reasons don’t foresee any change to that status. I have moved…
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Q. A wonderful and generous woman invites me, on a regular basis, to dinner parties at her house. What is…
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Q. I have regularly stayed with a hospitable friend in London but now hesitate to invite myself. She is seventy-something…
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Q. The woman who lives above me has insomnia and walks around all night. I’m also disturbed by her rather…
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Modern manners and the fear of the full stop
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Q. A neighbour is hosting a party for his daughter’s 21st birthday. Adequate provision has been made for anyone who…
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Q. After a recent dinner I found myself on a two-seater sofa enjoying the restful company of a woman who…
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Q. We enjoyed the Christmas University Challenge series featuring mature graduates, some of whom were more in the public eye than…
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Q. Since recycling was introduced in our village, the wall at the end of our drive has become the depositing…
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Once again Mary has invited some of her favourite figures in the public eye to submit personal queries for her…
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Q. There has been a marked increase in the number of people who have pristine flooring and are so keen…
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Oh God, it’s happened again. Another evening where I’m surrounded by people I know personally or have interviewed, and I…
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Q. What is the correct thing to say to a writer friend whose book you haven’t read? I buy most…
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Q. My future son-in-law has been successfully house-trained in the use of upper-middle-class English over the years that he has…
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Q. I am organising my 21st birthday party at our family house in Italy. It is a fantastic location, but…
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Q. What can you do when disorganised friends say they would love to come to a concert with you but…
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Q. I have been trying to get an apprenticeship in fashion for over a year without success. I just had…
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Q. When someone gives you anti-ageing cream as a present, is that an insult or a compliment? — A.O., Provence…
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Q. My neighbour is really lovely and always helps me chainsaw trees. He used to be the herdsman at the…
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Q. We have taken a flat in Edinburgh for a month and a young girl, temporarily homeless and a friend…
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Q. A scholarly book of great importance to me appears to have gone missing from my library. It was heavily…
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Q. At a drinks or a dinner party, when very attentive waiters are hovering, I tend to let them keep…
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Q. I live far away from my brother and his family, but went to stay with them recently for the…
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Q. My 16-year-old son, who has recently had his first experiences of Clubland, has observed to me, his mother, that…
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Q. My dear English husband has never mastered the knack of timing his interventions in conversation. He hesitates politely, and…
