Mary Wakefield

Mary Wakefield is commissioning editor of The Spectator.

Why don’t men ask questions?

10 May 2025 9:00 am

I’ll bet most women under 50 in relationships with men have found themselves wondering when on earth the man is…

Lily Parr and the creepiness of AI resurrection

26 April 2025 9:00 am

I’m not sure it’s possible to make a horror movie more sinister than the chirpy four-minute film on YouTube purporting…

‘Jordan Peterson is a sad and angry man’: an interview with Rowan Williams

19 April 2025 9:00 am

Rowan Williams, former Archbishop of Canterbury, has a new book out, a slim, thoughtful introduction to Christianity. But that’s not…

The Met’s misogyny

29 March 2025 9:00 am

My friend Rose likes a drink. She lives on the same street as another friend in Camden and three or…

The cat that tamed Dom

15 March 2025 9:00 am

I don’t like cats. I don’t like their reptilian stealth, or the way their heads are set low and poke…

Who’d dare join the SAS now?

1 March 2025 9:00 am

We should all feel scared to our bones about the persecution of the SAS, soldiers harried through the courts for…

The truth about surrogate babies

15 February 2025 9:00 am

I was a twin when I was born, but this was in the days before decent scans and proper neonatal…

Don’t believe the ‘Believe Her’ movement

1 February 2025 9:00 am

I never expected to have strong feelings for a member of Germany’s Green party, but I really do feel extremely…

The fight against gender madness isn’t over

25 January 2025 3:58 am

Too many conservatives are behaving as if Donald Trump’s inauguration has somehow done to wokery what garlic does to a…

The inevitable rise of the divorce party

18 January 2025 9:00 am

Have you been to a ‘divorce party’ yet this season? If you haven’t, not to worry, there’s still time. Divorce…

The nightmare of ‘maladaptive daydreaming’

4 January 2025 9:00 am

At the beginning of the spring term of my second year at university, a French boy called Xavier looked up…

The nuclear family? We blew it up years ago

14 December 2024 9:00 am

Now that John Lewis has produced a Christmas ad that celebrates family, starring white people as humans, all sorts of…

‘When a work lands the excitement is physical’: William Kentridge interviewed

30 November 2024 9:00 am

Watching William Kentridge’s film Self-Portrait as a Coffee-Pot is like being submerged inside his mind, inside the coffee pot maybe.…

We need to learn to pray again

23 November 2024 9:00 am

God is real, Rod Dreher insists, and we’re born to be in communion with him. But the focus and mental commitment that prayer requires are impossible if we’re forever doom-scrolling

Processing your Trump trauma (with orange soup)

19 November 2024 7:03 am

It’s amazing how many people have responded to what they think of as the shattering catastrophe of Donald Trump’s victory…

How to process your Trump trauma (with orange soup)

16 November 2024 9:00 am

It’s amazing how many people have responded to what they think of as the shattering catastrophe of Donald Trump’s victory…

My AI boyfriend turned psycho

2 November 2024 9:00 am

Last week it was reported that a 14-year-old boy, Sewell Setzer, killed himself for the love of a chatbot, a…

The rehabilitation of evil

19 October 2024 9:00 am

One of the many good reasons to want every new generation to study the second world war is that it…

Pornography and the truth about the Pelicot case

5 October 2024 9:00 am

There have been protests in 30 cities across France, people marching in outrage over the case of Dominique Pelicot who…

The adult ADHD trap

21 September 2024 9:00 am

I was on the bus recently and bored when I decided not to ignore but to answer one of those…

No one will change their mind about Hamas

7 September 2024 9:00 am

Earlier this summer, my son and I biked over to fashionable east Hackney where it’s normal to pay £4.20 for…

Why children have stopped reading

10 August 2024 9:00 am

It’s only when you read the old stories again, to a child maybe, that you become aware of the extent…

The vanity of Gavin Newsom

27 July 2024 9:00 am

Not long before Joe Biden finally accepted defeat, Gavin Newsom, the 56-year-old governor of California, was on the stump for…

Why was Jeremy Hunt SHOUTING AT ME?

13 July 2024 9:00 am

Robert Jenrick, once immigration minister and still, just, MP for Newark, said on Sunday that the Tories lost not because…

Tory men! Terfs need you

29 June 2024 9:00 am

Some of my good male friends, Tories, are sick of terfs. I can see it in their shifty eyes, in…