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180,000 people go missing every year in Britain – my father was one of them

What happens to a family when a parent disappears?

21 August 2021

9:00 AM

21 August 2021

9:00 AM

A couple of Southern Hemisphere summers ago, in January 2019, I was at the Michael Fowler Centre in Wellington, New Zealand. It was an unseasonably chilly evening as I sat listening to an emotional solo piano performance by Nick Cave.

He sang a rendition of Leonard Cohen’s ‘Avalanche’, a wonderfully gloomy piece of psychology set to music about the death of a father.

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