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Q. My wife’s father, who she adored, has died and she is to be his sole beneficiary. She intends to…
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Q. I’m 28 and lucky enough to own a four-bed house in Notting Hill. I let three of the rooms…
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Q. Financially successful friends have kindly invited my husband and me to stay for a week in France. Our problem…
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Q. A great friend is in a terrible state regarding a cat foisted on her by a close relation. She…
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Q. My brother’s social life has dried up since his divorce (which coincided with the pandemic). So when he received…
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Q. I live in the Hampshire countryside, in a lovely apartment where I have the use of an old walled…
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Q. As if it wasn’t bad enough to overhear one side of a conversation as it’s bellowed into a mobile…
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Q. My partner’s work involves him seeing and talking to people all day, every day. I booked us on to…
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Q. My husband and I have made friends with two distinguished, although fairly eccentric, writers whose company we thoroughly enjoy.…
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Q. A long-standing artist friend, whose work now commands high prices, has sent me out of the blue a present…
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Q. My cleaner is industrious and trustworthy but she doesn’t have many people to talk to and evidently looks forward…
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From Lady Antonia Fraser Q. I enjoy getting readers’ letters, but there is one category I am at a loss…
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Q. I will shortly be attending a major social gathering in London at which I can look forward to seeing…
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Q. Our two daughters often bring friends down for the weekend. These friends are more than welcome; we enjoy their…
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Q. During lockdown I made good friends with a neighbour who I would never have met otherwise. This man lives…
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Q. I have recently become a widow. Since my son is away at university, I had the idea of charging…
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Q. I never lie about my age but I try not to think — or talk — about it. Now…
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Q. We have had some rather rich Argentines to stay. No one was able to come in to help before…
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Q. A very old friend has rented a holiday house and invited my husband and me to stay. The property…
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Q. Passing Buckingham Palace in a taxi the other day, I saw the ceremonial wing of the Household Division prancing…
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Q. My beloved wife has been studying Chinese metaphysics for 18 months. Our house and garden have been badly neglected…
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Q. I live in a row of town houses with a communal strip of garden in front. Three of the…
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Q. The other night, while hosting a house party, I was one of only three people still chatting by the…
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Q. Last night I went to dinner with people I had never met before. Because the host was a friend…
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Q. My husband and I have started receiving invitations to large summer events scheduled for after 21 June. We have…
