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Q. Since the relaxation of lockdown, my brother and his wife have started coming to our garden for takeaway meals.…
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Q. My husband and I have started receiving invitations to large summer events scheduled for after 21 June. We have…
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Q. Our neighbours have a tennis court which, under the property’s previous owner, we enjoyed playing men’s fours on. The…
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Q. I have just been invited to a wedding where the groom will be the only person I know. Much…
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Q. I have been working (from home) for a TV comedy production company for a year. My job is scouting…
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Q. A dear friend of long-standing has a propensity to make friends of our friends — people she has first…
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Q. Before Covid, I was staying with friends in the country every other weekend. As a single man living in…
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Q. I hesitate to bring you this problem, but I suspect it is not that uncommon. Early in our very…
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Q. Recently an old acquaintance, notorious for never penning a ‘thank you’ note, emailed me telling me he was being…
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Q. Our friend lives far away, but comes to stay at her country place nearby several times a year. Some…
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Q. My mother, aged 87, has taken to forwarding me by email slightly risqué jokes. Her carer is the recipient…
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Q. My husband has always worked extremely hard and now does so from home — so I go to great…
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Q. I was instrumental in finding some much-needed work for a local retired secretary/PA when I recommended her for the…
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Q. There is a Tube stop next door to my place of work but I now walk in each day.…
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Q. Following the birth of our child we were deluged with cards, gifts and money from kind family and friends.…
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Q. My husband and I have two single friends who we believe should be introduced. In days gone by, we…
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From Joanna Lumley Q. We receive a huge number of Christmas cards every year. When I take them all down…
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Q. I am extremely fond of an artist friend, despite the fact that I have never liked her work or…
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Q. Unlike my wife, I am tiring of Netflix. Wanting a project to occupy me during these long dark nights,…
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Q. For many years my boss gave each member of his small team a very generous Christmas gift voucher from…
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Q. My son has moved his girlfriend into our fairly small house for the second lockdown. I am grateful for…
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Q. I have a delightful young goddaughter who, thanks to the virus, I have not seen since last year. Her…
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Q. Is there a tactful way to wind up a Zoom call when one of you has more time on…
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Q. I would welcome your advice on a tricky family matter. For my 70th birthday earlier this year my brother…
